Growing up is an odd thing. We spend much of our time as children trying to act like grown-ups, and then some grown-ups spend a lot of their time acting like kids. The difference between children and adults is maturity. However, we do not expect adults to act like kids; we expect them to act maturely. Paul summarized growing up this way, “When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” (1 Corinthians 13:11)
In Ephesians 4, Paul wrote that God has gifted certain people to the church “for the perfecting of the saints.” We are perfected as we grow and mature in our Christian life. The community in which that growth takes place is the local church. You and I need the church to help us “grow up into him.” The Christian life is designed to be one where we work together, learn together, and grow together so that we all grow more and more like Jesus. When we are each in our place, lovingly doing our part for the body of Christ, the result is consistent growth, individually and collectively. We must be committed to God’s plan for the local church to grow up into Christ because proper growth in the Christian life cannot happen apart from the church.